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families are under great stress, Val explains.
I answer
parents questions and guide them through what they need
to do. As these children get older, we need to empower them to
know its not their fault.
Children with
cleft lip and palate often develop speech defects, cognitive deficits
or learning disorders. With early psychological assessment, Val
can help them get the treatment and education they need.
How early?
Even newborns with birth defects are referred to Val.
Babies
dont see themselves, explains Val. Parents are
their mirrors; if parents are anxious, depressed or react with
alarm, the child feels and absorbs it.
Val also sees
patients with facial deformities caused by accidents or diseases
like cancer. Though the miracles of plastic surgery and prostheses
can repair a lot of the external injuries, self-image can be harder
to restore.
People
often feel ashamed and alone and believe that relationships may
never be the same, Val says.
They
may be depressed and avoid the world because they anticipate ridicule
and rejection.
But acceptance
is possible. One patient is a vivid example. The 16-year-old boy,
who was in a wheelchair, had serious congenital defects that required
several surgeries on his face and body.
Nevertheless,
he did his best in school and sports, Val says.
He played
basketball with his high school team around the country, inspiring
everyone whether they have deformities or not.
Above:
Psychologist Graciela Val with special dolls to help children
understand their images.
Photo:
Roberta Dupuis-Devlin
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